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Who are we?
We have a vision of a community of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) families across Australia, where each family is included, respected and has value! Rainbow Families is the peak organisation supporting LGBTQ+ parents and their children. As a community organisation run by LGBTQ+ families, we act as a support network for parents and carers, their children as well as future parents and carers.
Our Mission
The mission of Rainbow Families is to build a community which fosters resiliency by connecting, supporting and empowering LGBTQ+ families.
What makes a Rainbow family?
A Rainbow family is a same-sex or LGBTQ+ parented family. At Rainbow Families, we define a Rainbow family as any lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or queer person who has a child or children; or is planning on having a child or children by way of donor insemination (known or unknown), surrogacy (altruistic or commercial), foster care, fostering to adoption, adoption (domestic or international), opposite­ sex relationship, co-parenting or other means.
What do we do?
We provide support and resources to members of the LGBTQ+ community so that they and their families can live their best and most colourful lives. We host events that connect LGBTQ+ families, particularly those that are feeling isolated because of social pressures, financial difficulty or where they live. We advocate on behalf of our community and are a strong and consistent voice for NSW LGBTQ+ families to address discrimination, raise awareness and promote acceptance. We collaborate with similar organisations from other states to push for change across the nation.
New Rainbow Families are always welcome. Come along, say hi and connect with like-minds at one of our events or find out how you can get involved.
The Rainbow Families Story: Together we sparkle
Like many grassroots organisation, Rainbow Families started with a humble kitchen meeting, wine & pizza, and lots of passionate parents.
Of course, LGBTQ+ people have been parents for ages, but recent years has seen an increase in opportunities available to us. Some of this has been increased access to clinics, changes in adoption laws, support for fostering, and having more parent role models in our community. There have been lots of parent social groups, but despite the growth in our community, NSW lacked from a strong peak, a professional community organisation was missing.
Rainbow Families has its origins in two separate New South Wales same-sex parenting social groups: Rainbow Babies and Kids, which supported predominantly lesbian mums, and Gay Dads NSW that supported predominantly gay dads.
Both these organisations wanted to better support the LGBTQ+ community as a whole, and it became clear that the best way forward was to band together. In 2016, the committee incorporated to become Rainbow Families (you can find our constitution here).
Since then, we’ve continued supporting and being a voice for LGBTQ+ parents and families. Some of our successes that we’ve fronted or played a significant part in include:
  • Holding Australia’s first LGBTQ+ antenatal class;
  • Creating the ‘Love Makes a Family’ report on issues our community faces when accessing NSW State Government services;
  • Facilitating Australia’s only LGBTQ+ playgroups;
  • Successfully advocating for changes to passport applications to be more inclusive of same-sex parents;
  • Being part of the winning marriage equality campaign;
  • Consulting with the NSW Government to make the NSW Blue Book more inclusive of LGBTQ+ families;
  • Developing a range of resources and educational groups for parents;
  • Establishing a children’s resilience program.
Rainbow Families will continue building a resilient, inclusive network of LGBTQ+ families. We’re very excited to keep growing our community; here’s cheers to our future wins!


Vanessa Gonzalez
Co-Chair of Rainbow Families

Prior to moving to the inner west, Vanessa was an active organiser of Blue Mountains Rainbow Parents coordinating weekend gatherings, playgroups and cooking circles. Professionally, she is a social worker with over twenty years experience in the field of child protection. She has two delightful sons, loves making craft, cooking and running the Bay run.

Scott Brunelle 
Co-Chair of Rainbow Families
Having moved to Sydney from New York City in 2004,  Scott has been supporting our community for over nine years. First as the coordinator of Gay Dads NSW and then as one of the founding Co-chairs of Rainbow Families.

Scott, along with his spouse Robert, are parents to Kurt (8) who was born with the help of a surrogate, and they are co-parents to Mikayla (16) and Abby (13), along with two mums Amanda and Chris. Professionally, Scott leads the Marketing function for a global logistics company with operations in 11 countries.

Scott is thrilled to be returning as Co-chair of Rainbow Families. He will be focused on the strategic development and long-term sustainability of the organisation to ensure support of future generations of Rainbow Families

Lisa Story
Treasurer of Rainbow Families
Lisa has more than 20 years experience in finance. She works for Investa Property Group, where she heads up the Treasury and Corporate Planning teams.

Living in Sydney’s Inner West, Lisa and her partner Hayley have three beautiful boys; Patrick, Jonathan and Sebastian.

Lisa became active with Rainbow Families after her eldest son was born, in fact you may even recognise Lisa’s face from the famous marriage equality video, in which she phoned her grandmother which racked up over one million views.

Cathy Brown
Cathy is a mum of two, who lives in Marrickville with her partner and cat, Paulie.
Cathy is passionate about equality, and keeps accidentally getting herself involved as an activist for LGBTIQ people and their families. She used to work in politics, and now works in diversity and inclusion. While completing her Masters, Cathy wrote a thesis that explored issues for gay and lesbian seniors as they aged.
In her spare time Cathy is a Commonwealth registered Marriage Celebrant, and is really looking forward to marriage equality, not just to expand her client base.
She loves Aldi, the Royal Family and leaving her kids with their dads so she can go on holiday.

James Hart
James is a proud single gay dad of 6-year-old Thomas.  James is an active member of the Gay Dads group and has recently joined the Rainbow Families Committee.  
Having come out later in life, James is newer than most gay dads to the gay world and values the different perspectives that this gives him and which hopefully translates into greater diversity of views on the Committee.  James lives in Surry Hills and works in the city in a commercial role for a large telco.  English born and bred James strives to maintain his accent and to ensure Thomas grows up speaking the Queen’s English!  

Dror Hazy
Dror is a proud single dad to a beautiful boy. He works full time as an Operational Risk Manager at the fabulous and equality strong supporter Westpac. Dror became involved with Gay Dads when his son was born and has been coordinating social catch ups for the group for the past 2.5 years. He also volunteered to assist with events and fundraising activities for Rainbow Families.
Dror joined the admin team of Gaydads AU Facebook group in an attempt to enhance Gay Dads interaction nationwide. Dror became a member of the committee in 2018 and is looking forward to strengthening the sense of community and belonging within Rainbow Families.

Ashley Scott

Ashley has two young daughters who were born through surrogacy. He is also a known donor for a Lesbian family. Ashley works part-time for Rainbow Families.  Ashley has been active within the Gay Dads group since his eldest daughter was born, and enjoys bringing the rainbow families community together. 

Bern Foley
An active committee member since mid 2015, Bern’s background ranges from event & hospitality management to customer experience and dispute resolution across the banking & finance, insurance and telecommunications industries. A proud, passionate mother and step mum, Bern has a vested interest in ensuring her children grow up in an accepting and loving community. Bern, her partner Jess and their blended family live in the Inner West of Sydney.

Bridget Leigh Muir
Bridget is a pansexual kiwi who has lived in South Africa, New Zealand and Australia. Bridget is one parent of a two parented gender diverse family involving two children and one cat.
Bridget and family have contributed to the All Families resource for trans and gender diverse parents. Bridget has a background in Social Work in both New Zealand and Australia working with children and youth aged 5 to 24 years old.
Bridget is also a trained and accredited volunteer counsellor with organisation, La Leche League International. Bridget and a few close friends also organise a casual social support group for non-transitioning partners. Bridget is passionate about social justice, inclusivity and diversity! And keep very busy by exploring the outdoors, running long distances, and being curious about life!

Morri Young
Secretary of Rainbow Families
Morri has been working in social, community and family services for many decades, particularly in the out-of-home care sector. He is also a Director of Accounting for Good, which supports nonprofit and charity boards to understand their financial situation and then make sound financial decisions for their organisation, staff, volunteers and 'clients'. Morri has sound experience in ensuring good governance practice at the board level, and of ensuring that boards manage risk through effective processes. He is the father of three adult children, and is proud to be part of Rainbow Families Inc.

Alison Gould
Alison lives on the outskirts of Sydney with her three wonderful children and her wife. She currently assists the Rainbow Families committee with IT matters, as well as contributing to the All Families resource for trans and gender diverse parents.
Alison and her wife also started a positive social group for couples who wish to stay together when one member alters their gender identity and/or expression during the relationship, and help organise the Currans Hill Playgroup, and the Macarthur Rainbow Families Group.

Belinda McLean
Belinda lives in St Peters with her partner Bec and two daughters. She has played an active role in the Rainbow Families community, organising monthly catch ups in the Inner West since 2012. Belinda is an Assistant Principal of a primary school and is passionate about inclusiveness. She joined the committee in 2018 and looks forward to playing an active role in the LGBTQI community.

Dianne van Dulken
Di always thought she was Bi, and ended up getting marries (to a BLOKE) and having a child that way. Imagine her surprise when she realised that she wasn't bi, she was lesbian, her child was lesbian and they now have a very rainbow family. She's interested in helping others who find themselves as a rainbow family later rather than sooner.

Jolene Evans
Jolene and her partner live in Croydon NSW and are expecting their second child in late October. Jolene was born in England and immigrated to Australia at the age of seven with her mother. She has always had a deep love for people and animals alike. Jolene has been volunteering her time from a young age, starting with teaching children with disabilities to ride horses for the RSPCA, volunteering at Mardi Gras, and hairdressing in nursing homes. Jolene helps organise Drag Story Time and some of the fundraisers for Rainbow Families. Jolene is passionate about teaching the new generation acceptance, diversity and respect for all and truly believes they are the generation to change the world. Jolene feels strongly about working to help the homeless and hopes to study social work in the next couple of years.

Sarah Tucker
Sarah was born and raised in a small country town in South Australia. She has since settled and made Sydney her home, along with her two young children. Sarah enjoys keeping fit, good coffee, cooking and being outdoors. Sarah is an avid Broncos supporter. Sarah is a Rainbow Families volunteer and having recently joined the committee, she looks forward to meeting other rainbow families and contributing to an inclusive and supportive community. 

Kylie Gwynne

Kylie has about thirty years’ experience in health and human services programs, policy and research. She is a mum and identifies as a lesbian. Kylie has participated in RF events for a few years and is really pleased to be part of the committee.
Want to get involved?

Want to get involved?

We always welcome extra hands and hearts! Whether it’s helping to organise a catch-up or planning one of our colourful annual events, campaigning for an LGBTQ+ cause or hosting a workshop, your help is always appreciated. See how you can get involved with Rainbow Families below!